About the Sexual Compatibility Test
Answer for what you would prefer with this partner, rather than how things currently work or how skilled you think you are. Each question has its own five answers. Six themes compare similarity. Making the first move and Leading & following compare complementary preferences, so a person who enjoys leading can fit a person who enjoys following. Taking turns can also fit. Partner A answers first, then passes the device to Partner B. The shared report compares themes and keeps individual question answers out of the result. It describes these preferences, not the success of your relationship.
How your result is calculated
Each partner’s responses are normalized to a 0-100 score per dimension. Similarity is 100 minus the distance between two scores. Initiation and power compare complementary preferences instead. Only dimensions both partners answer contribute to the overall overlap. Missing categories remain unscored.
A percentage summarizes your responses to this question set. It is not a percentile against other visitors. KinkyAtlas does not have a population comparison dataset, and we do not invent one.
Read all 24 questions
- In a normal week together, how often would you ideally want sex?
- On a lazy weekend or a holiday with nothing planned, how often would you want sex?
- During a stressful, busy stretch, how often would you still want sex?
- Who would you rather made the first move?
- Who would you rather turned a make-out session into sex?
- Who would you rather said “I want you tonight” out loud instead of dropping hints?
- How much variety do you want in what you do in bed?
- Where you have sex: the same bed every time, or new places?
- When your partner suggests something you’ve never tried, what balance suits you?
- Once things start, who would you rather set the pace?
- In a dom/sub dynamic, who would you rather be in charge?
- Who would you rather decide what happens next while the other follows?
- How important is feeling emotionally close before sex?
- How important are loving words during sex?
- How important is romance, beyond physical chemistry, in your sex life?
- How do you like to let your partner know what you want before sex?
- During sex, how much do you want to talk about what feels good?
- After trying something new, how do you want to talk about how it went?
- With the whole evening free, how long do you want sex to last?
- How long do you want kissing and foreplay to last before sex?
- When the mood hits unexpectedly and you have some time, how long do you want it to last?
- How important is cuddling afterwards?
- How important is pillow talk afterwards?
- How important is staying in bed together for a while before anyone gets up?
Your questions, answered.
Do we need two devices?
No. This launch version is a pass-the-device quiz. Each partner answers in turn.
Can I view my partner’s individual answers?
The report displays dimension comparisons, not individual answers. Answers remain in the same browser session.
Does a lower score mean we are incompatible?
No. Differences are conversation topics. This score cannot evaluate a whole relationship.
For a closer look at your own desire pattern, take the Sex Drive Test. To explore which gestures make each of you feel wanted, try the Intimacy Language Test separately and compare your themes.
Reflection and entertainment, not a diagnosis. How our quizzes work. Updated 7 October 2026.